Tag Archives: Dealing with Frustration

On Being Deliberate

Photo:  Mukumbura I really respect people who are deliberate. Those who act with purpose, who speak clearly, and for whom nothing is an accident. They are methodical, meaning there is a specific method to what they do and why. They might not know what they want, but they know what they are doing. These characteristics [...]

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It’s Good to be Bad at Stuff

That’s me.                                                                            Photo:  DelosJ OK, no it isn’t.                       [...]

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If They Don’t “Get” It, It’s Probably Your Fault

Photo:  camil tulcan Today I overheard a conversation about a person’s startup that really caught my attention and got me thinking. Was I eavesdropping? Well, they were talking directly behind me during lunch, so it’s not like I could avoid it. But that being said, yeah, I kind of was. The one guy was talking [...]

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A Different Level of Inspiration

NCAA Wrestling National Championships Division 1 Anthony Robles vs. Matt McDonough This is the closest I’ve been to crying in a long time. Not from something sad or sappy, but from raw inspiration. The above video is absolutely amazing and I really hope you take the time to view it. Even if wresting isn’t your [...]

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Self-Efficacy and Believing in Yourself

Photo: Leon Nicholls I’ve talked before about the power of positive thinking, saying it’s the most important transferable skill. After researching a few psychological studies for a different piece, I’m beginning to think that positive thinking isn’t just a nice-to-have characteristic – it’s a critical part of any happy life.

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The Benefits of Challenges

Photo:  aspheric lens For the past few weeks I’ve been struggling with an injury. As I’ve mentioned here, here, and here, sports (especially running) are a big part of my life, so being injured really sucks. I’m a very active person and have maintained a consistent workout regimen for the last 15 years. This injury [...]

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Your Job Doesn’t Make You Better Than Anyone Else

Photo:  Paul G I play on two soccer leagues in Chicago, and while I never played in high school so my skills are limited, I really love playing. It’s a great workout (especially to add variety to the running), it’s fun, and I happen to be play with some really cool, talented folks. Throw in [...]

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Is Being Happy in Your Job Realistic?

Photo:  Craig My parents used to say, “Anyone can steer the ship when the seas are calm.” They’d use this as a teaching metaphor when my sisters or I would face a challenge or setback. The point was, everyone shines when things are going great – big deal. What matters is how people deal with [...]

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Open Letter to Amazon Job Search Book Reviewer

Photo:  Ben Grantham I was looking at a job search book on Amazon today and stumbled upon a few of the reader comments. The first review made a point that struck me as both legitimate and bullshit at the same time. How’s that possible? Allow me to explain.

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How the Job Search and Your Love Life Are the Same

Photo: Tristan Nitot This is a post I originally did for Brazen Careerist, a great social network for Generation Y professionals. The post is now available in its entirety below. Okay, comparing a job search to dating is not exactly new. I Googled the phrase “job hunting is like dating” and found more than 9,500 results. So, yeah, [...]

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